6/28/2012
by Friends for Youth Admin
6/28/2012
Visit a farmers' market. There are many in the bay area--especially now that summer is here. There's a Saturday market downtown and a Sunday market on California Avenue in Palo Alto. Redwood City has on on Tuesdays and one on Saturdays. Search for a farmers' market near you, listen to some music, sample some fruits and veggies, or take some home and try a new recipe or search for a recipe by ingredient. Explore and have fun!
by Rebecca
6/28/2012
Imelda and Julio were
matched April 1, 2011, and had a wonderful year
together. Imelda and Julio got a chance to try many different activities
together and got to visit many cool places. One of their favorites was the The Jelly Bean Factory.
Imelda and Julio also attended many Friends for Youth group activities, including
the Beach Extravaganza, Tile Making, Alcatraz, the Stress Management Life Skill Workshop, and the Discover the Bay community
service project. They received free tickets from Friends for Youth to visit the Monterey Bay Aquarium. Imelda also participated in the Are We Having Fun Yet? online Senior Friend Group. Both Imelda and Julio agreed at their One-Year Friendship Anniversary
meeting that they had a fun and exciting year together and have already made
plans for future fun and exciting times!
6/27/2012
by Sarah Kremer, Mentoring Institute Program Director
6/27/2012
Many of us who
work professionally with youth have been following the reports of former
Penn State coach Jerry Sandusky, from the initial accusations to the
arrest, then trial, and now conviction on most counts. In addition to this
story, there is the series
of articles about a culture of abuse at a private prep school in Manhattan
and, in the San Francisco Bay Area, we’ve also seen several other
significant reports of adults in trusted positions who have sexually abused
youth. While we’re encouraged in seeing an increased awareness about this issue
(as these abuses happen far more often than most people think or hear about),
we are deeply saddened that there continues to be more incidents.
Child
sexual abuse cases like these often prompt responses similar to, “It shouldn’t
have happened!” or “How could these people have had access to vulnerable
youth?” or “Why wasn’t anyone noticing what was going on?” For many people who
don’t have exposure to abused or neglected youth or know someone who has had
this experience, it is natural to be upset even hearing the words used to
describe such incidents. Indeed, it can be difficult to even consider that
another person is capable of hurting a child this way. Even though it is an
extremely uncomfortable topic that generates anxiety and fear, the potential
danger for youth is too great for us not to talk about it.
Friends for
Youth has been the leader in the youth mentoring field in developing guidelines
for programs to implement in order to only select volunteer mentors who are
safe. Based on research over the years to produce our resource SAFE(Screening Applicants for Effectiveness): Guidelines to Prevent ChildMolestation in Mentoring and Youth-Serving Organizations – and more recently for our chapter to be
included in the new Handbook on Youth Mentoring, available by the end of this year
– we help organizations do better by offering recommendations on the screening
and monitoring process and developing policies and procedures to ensure
compliance.
In recent
trainings with mentoring professionals, I’ve been able to discuss very
realistic examples to illustrate our recommendations, including
- Perpetrators often become so well known and liked in a community that family, friends, and acquaintances will go to great lengths to defend them
- By relying solely on a criminal history background check, programs aren’t adequately doing their job of ensuring their volunteers are safe
- Perpetrators will seek many opportunities to have access with children they wish to harm, including volunteer and charitable work
- Most people don’t want to think anyone else is capable of sexually abusing a child, so they often “discount” what they see and hear
- Often, though, after the abuse has been publicized, these same people reflect back on what they saw or heard and realize that they did notice something that made them uncomfortable
After a
similar event from several years ago, Kenneth Lanning, a retired FBI behavior
analyst who studied child molesters, said the perpetrator showed indicators of
concern, but “the indicators are
things the average person is not trained to recognize.” Through SAFE,
we educate program staff about those indicators and recommend specific tools
and processes to implement in order to spot them.
If you are feeling helpless, hopeless, or discouraged by the state of
programs designed to support youth and help them thrive, know that you can do
something. We recommend
- Asking if other programs that work with children in your community are effectively screening volunteers, both adults and other youth (check out this list of questions for parents from Stop It Now!)
- Letting them know about our SAFE training and resources that we provide to other youth-serving organizations
- Donating to our SAFE 2012 Campaign in order to help us raise funds to produce a new edition of SAFE that will include more recent recommendations and a trainer’s guide, allowing us to reach more youth-serving programs than ever
Thank you
for doing all you can to support youth by keeping them safe and helping them
thrive!
6/25/2012
by Jonathan
6/25/2012
Hello everyone. My name is Hannah Vizza and I am a recent
graduate from California Polytechnic State University in San Luis Obispo. I
have a Bachelors of Liberal Arts Degree in History and minors in Art History
and Women Gender Studies. After attending Cal Poly, I moved back to my hometown
in the bay area where now I have a summer marketing internship with Friends For
Youth. I would describe myself as a friendly, positive, and active person. I
love to meet new people, play sports, and eat chocolate.
I have many
passions including traveling, reading, and painting. During my junior year of
college, I was lucky enough to study abroad in Florence, Italy for a semester.
In Florence, I immersed myself in my Italian heritage, made pizza, ate way too
much gelato, and fell in love with Renaissance art. Also, while studying
abroad, I was able to visit seven different European countries, including
England, Ireland, Italy, Germany, Spain, Austria, and Czechoslovakia. I made
new lifelong friends and enjoyed the different cultures I encountered. This
experience broadened my perspective on life and enhanced my adventurous spirit and love of diversity.
In my free time,
as I mentioned above, I love to read, paint, and be outside. Currently, I am rereading
“Bossypants” by Tina Fey and I still find it just as hilarious as I did the
first time. Tina Fey also happens to be not only one of my favorite writers but
actors as well. In addition to “Bossypants,” I love to read many other series
of books that range from Dan Brown’s “Da Vinci Code” to “Harry Potter” and to “The
Lord of The Rings.” Also, I am a Jan Austin fan and have read several of her
novels. When I am not reading, I am either outside spending time with my
friends, going to Giants baseball games, or painting. Although I am not the best
artist, I find painting, drawing, cooking, and other crafts to be both
entertaining and relaxing.
I hope you all
have found my brief introduction to be informative yet more enjoyable. I am
very excited to work more closely with everyone at Friends For Youth!
6/21/2012
by Friends for Youth Admin
6/21/2012
Organize a garage sale and keep track of how much profit you make.
Someone's trash may be someone else's treasure. Ask family, friends, and
neighbors if they have anything to give you for the sale. They may be happy to
have help to get a few items out of their garage, back yard, or kitchen. Before
you do it, check out tips or advice
online for having a successful garage sale. And, as always, remember to have fun!
6/14/2012
by Jonathan
6/14/2012
Junior and Senior Friends had a chance to show off their creative talents during Tuesday night's Tile Making Activity. Friends for Youth was excited to offer this popular activity again this year.
Thanks to Mentoring Institute Director Sarah Kremer, Friendships got to learn about glazes, coloring, and techniques to employ while decorating their tiles. After the introduction, everyone was given his or her own tile to decorate.
Friendships got to work. Designs and styles varied, but each tile dealt with the theme of Friendship.
"Great activity and turnout," Senior Friend Kristen commented. "We both had a good time - looking forward to seeing the finished product!" All of the decorated tiles will be fired and distributed to the Friendships who made them.
Thanks to Mentoring Institute Director Sarah Kremer, Friendships got to learn about glazes, coloring, and techniques to employ while decorating their tiles. After the introduction, everyone was given his or her own tile to decorate.
Friendships got to work. Designs and styles varied, but each tile dealt with the theme of Friendship.
"Great activity and turnout," Senior Friend Kristen commented. "We both had a good time - looking forward to seeing the finished product!" All of the decorated tiles will be fired and distributed to the Friendships who made them.
6/12/2012
by Friends for Youth Admin
6/12/2012
Take
a CPR or a first-aid class together. You can
also check out the Bay Area Red Cross website for more
information. Be safe and have fun!
6/11/2012
by Jonathan
6/11/2012
Junior Friend Mayra graduated from Sequoia High School last Friday. She walked to accept her diploma while family members and Friends for Youth staff cheered her on. Mayra will be starting college classes in the fall.
Friends for Youth congratulates Mayra and all the other 2012 graduates who have been part of the program. Wonderful job on all your hard work and consistent dedication!
Friends for Youth congratulates Mayra and all the other 2012 graduates who have been part of the program. Wonderful job on all your hard work and consistent dedication!
6/07/2012
by Sarah Kremer, Mentoring Institute Program Director
6/07/2012
Why am I jumping for joy? Because we held another successful Friendship Portrait session with our amazing volunteer, Darren Ferriera, senior photographer of the Gap, Inc. In May, twelve mentor and mentee pairs joined us at the Gap's photo studio in San Francisco for a day of connections, fun, and wonderful photographs. For the past 11 years, we've been very fortunate to have Darren volunteer his time and services to create beautiful and expressive portraits of our mentors and mentees. His studio also sponsors the event, donating the space and equipment, and their corporate office, through an employee volunteerism program, also makes a donation to us - what could be better?
Thank you to Darren, the Gap, and the Gap Foundation!
by Friends for Youth Admin
6/07/2012
The days are getting longer, summer is almost here, and free concerts have started (or will start soon) in many cities. Take a blanket and some picnic food and enjoy the wide variety of musical talent. Try Redwoood City, Palo Alto, San Carlos, San Mateo, Mountain View, Los Gatos, San Francisco--or another city near you. Palo Alto also hosts a World Music Day on Sunday 6/17. Have fun!
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